Calling a whore a whore is the same as throwing a rock at someone? She promotes foolish pride. Pride goeth before destruction. Admonishing another for being a whore and promoting foolish pride is acting in true love because one wants another to turn from being a whore and turn from living foolishly with pride because one wants another to be saved from eternal damnation. We are here for each other, to help each other, to guide each other, to teach each other, to pray for each other. It would be remiss to not admonish each other. Not admonishing each other would be not caring for each other which would be selfish and not loving each other. When Jesus asks why we didn't admonish another to correct them from their foolish pride ways so as to save them from eternal damnation, what would we say?
Yikes.
Again, WWJD? The answer? Is in the Gospels in which you claim to be so Knowledgeable. We have examples in John 4 and again in John 8. You know what he didn’t do to these adulterous women? Call them a whore. He gave them grace. We aren’t here on earth to condemn. That’s the point of Jesus grace.
There is a difference between what Jesus did with gentle correction, and what you’re doing with condemnation. Calling someone a whore (which is what you are doing and Jesus directly called it out in John 8) is not how we are directed to deal with this.
I will help you…
Lets start with the definition of condemnation.
Condemnation: an expression of strong disapproval; pronouncing as wrong or morally culpable
Condemnation: the act of declaring something awful or evil. If your little brother does something unspeakably awful, express your condemnation so he will learn not to do it again.
John 8
2 And early in the morning he (Jesus) came again into the temple, and all the people came unto him; and he sat down, and taught them.
3 And the scribes and Pharisees brought unto him a woman taken in adultery; and when they had set her in the midst,
4 They say unto him, Master, this woman was taken in adultery, in the very act.
5 Now Moses in the law commanded us, that such should be stoned: but what sayest thou?
6 This they said, tempting him, that they might have to accuse him. But Jesus stooped down, and with his finger wrote on the ground, as though he heard them not.
7 So when they continued asking him, he lifted up himself, and said unto them, He that is without sin among you, let him first cast a stone at her.
8 And again he stooped down, and wrote on the ground.
9 And they which heard it, being convicted by their own conscience, went out one by one, beginning at the eldest, even unto the last: and Jesus was left alone, and the woman standing in the midst.
10 When Jesus had lifted up himself, and saw none but the woman, he said unto her, Woman, where are those thine accusers? hath no man condemned thee?
11 She said, No man, Lord. And Jesus said unto her, Neither do I condemn thee: go, and sin no more.
Notice: Neither do I CONDEMN thee. Like I said, you might want to read your gospels again.
From John 4 dealing with the adulterous woman at the well. Notice what he calls her and what he doesn’t call her (woman and whore respectively)
17 “I have no husband,” she replied.
Jesus said to her, “You are right when you say you have no husband. 18 The fact is, you have had five husbands, and the man you now have is not your husband. What you have just said is quite true.”
19 “Sir,” the woman said, “I can see that you are a prophet. 20 Our ancestors worshiped on this mountain, but you Jews claim that the place where we must worship is in Jerusalem.”
21 “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. 22 You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. 23 Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. 24 God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.”
You confuse admonishing for condemnation. You were not warning her or giving gentle instruction. You were condemning her by calling her a whore.
Have I fallen into this trap before? You bet, but now it’s up to you to be convicted to change.