You should get out more.
You’re missing my point. it’s a conundrum. As I said, the Catholic Church considers it a sin. But only loosely enforces it. But you can’t receive forgiveness for a sin that you intend to continue doing. So unless it was a mistake and pledge to not intentionally perform the act again, then you won’t be free from sin. That would be like asking God for forgiveness for murdering, raping or other grave sins, with no intention to stop. It’s meaningless.
God doesn’t excuse some sins but allow others.
Loosely enforces?? Um, only the Muslims enforce punishments against sin these days.... the Church leaves “enforcement “
To the Lord
Premarital sex is a sin. Period. Do people engage in it? Yes. Does that make it any less a sin? No. We are all imperfect images of God with willful minds and hearts that churn out justifications to stray.... it’s how you realign oneself to Gods intent that grows and matures the soul