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You’re missing my point. it’s a conundrum. As I said, the Catholic Church considers it a sin. But only loosely enforces it. But you can’t receive forgiveness for a sin that you intend to continue doing. So unless it was a mistake and pledge to not intentionally perform the act again, then you won’t be free from sin. That would be like asking God for forgiveness for murdering, raping or other grave sins, with no intention to stop. It’s meaningless.

God doesn’t excuse some sins but allow others.

Loosely enforces?? Um, only the Muslims enforce punishments against sin these days.... the Church leaves “enforcement “
To the Lord

Premarital sex is a sin. Period. Do people engage in it? Yes. Does that make it any less a sin? No. We are all imperfect images of God with willful minds and hearts that churn out justifications to stray.... it’s how you realign oneself to Gods intent that grows and matures the soul
 
Well there you have it folks. Now we know why he's voting for Hiden. That's the strangest justification for sin I've ever heard. If you cannot see fornication/adultery for what it is, sin, then how can you see abortion as sin. No wonder you think it's no big deal. You've got some serious spiritual problems. If I were you I'd consider atheism - it's right up your alley. Besides, the democrats making decisions seem to be atheistic anyway.
I love how you conflate taking an innocent life, ie abortion, with premarital sex. Same with adultery. Those are pretty clear cut. That lets me know you don’t know how to logically support your position without deflecting.

If I were you, I’d brush up on your reasoning skills, because you haven’t used any on this topic.
 
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Funny how we all need to "read up more" or "brush up." Conflate? You missed my point entirely? How is that possible?! It's called a moral thread.

This is my 2nd year of watching this. Most of us have been here a lot longer than he has but he's made up for lost time.
 
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So, this has been going on for 2 years? wow.
Two years? Nah, I’ve been raising hell OTB this board for over a decade. You’re welcome to leave at any time. I’ll be here long after you and your crew are gone.
 
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Funny how we all need to "read up more" or "brush up." Conflate? You missed my point entirely? How is that possible?! It's called a moral thread.
Correct. And my point is different Christians hold different positions on certain moral issues. I then gave a pastors opinion which supported mine, and no one has provided any biblical reference to dispute it.

Question. Is the use of contraceptives a sin? Death penalty? Drinking? Attending Mass on Sunday? Celebrating birthdays? Polygamy? Women covering their head At church.? Women priests?
 
Loosely enforces?? Um, only the Muslims enforce punishments against sin these days.... the Church leaves “enforcement “
To the Lord

Premarital sex is a sin. Period. Do people engage in it? Yes. Does that make it any less a sin? No. We are all imperfect images of God with willful minds and hearts that churn out justifications to stray.... it’s how you realign oneself to Gods intent that grows and matures the soul
You can’t just say it a sin and not support your position. That would just make it your opinion.
 
You can’t just say it a sin and not support your position. That would just make it your opinion.

It’s a sin in Catholicism, and in the Bible under Hebrews. If you consider yourself a Catholic, then you would submit to generally what the catechism says about a subject. You may subscribe to being a cafeteria Catholic.... but then that’s picking and choosing your beliefs out of your own willfulness, not out of a life of dedication to the faith ..... or the dedication and heartfelt study of the faith over 80 generations

Have I any better theological position for ascribing sinfulness??! Hell no! Obeying what’s right is hard..... and I fail. But that’s my failing to do what is right, not the failing of the teachings that I would then then eschew as being wrong
 
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It’s a sin in Catholicism, and in the Bible under Hebrews. If you consider yourself a Catholic, then you would submit to generally what the catechism says about a subject. You may subscribe to being a cafeteria Catholic.... but then that’s picking and choosing your beliefs out of your own willfulness, not out of a life of dedication to the faith ..... or the dedication and heartfelt study of the faith over 80 generations

Have I any better theological position for ascribing sinfulness??! Hell no! Obeying what’s right is hard..... and I fail. But that’s my failing to do what is right, not the failing of the teachings that I would then then eschew as being wrong

Yes, I agree that the Catholic Church technically considers it a sin. And no, I don’t subscribe to every Church position. Sorry, that would make me a robot. They’ve been wrong in the past. Truly, only God determines what’s actually a sin. Sorry, but I don’t believe having sex with the woman I ended up marrying to be a sin. But while its been many decades, I probably did cover that in confession. Fortunately I don’t have to worry about that any more.

Again, I love that people OTB are so confident that it’s a sin, yet totally ignored it prior to marriage. Did you tell your adult children not to have sex before marriage? The same with contraception, which well over half of all Catholics also use.

That just makes you hypocrites.
 
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Again, I love that people OTB are so confident that it’s a sin, yet totally ignored it prior to marriage. Maybe the same with contraception, which over half of all Catholics also use.

That just makes you hypocrites.

The fact that you are confused about whether or not sex outside of marriage is really a sin is frightening. How can you be so ignorant?

And why do you assume that other posters here ignore it being a sin as you do? And then you judge them for doing something when you could not possibly know if they have done that something or not.

Sounds like you are trying to invent a scenario where the rest of us are in the same boat with you so that makes your actions alright. Whatever helps you sleep at night, I guess?
 
Yes, I agree that the Catholic Church considers it a sin. And no, I don’t subscribe to every Church position. Sorry, that would make me a robot. They’ve been wrong in the past. Truly, only God determines what’s actually a sin. Sorry, but I don’t believe having sex with the woman I ended up marrying to be a sin. But while its been many decades, I probably did cover that in confession. Fortunately I don’t have to worry about that any more.

Again, I love that people OTB are so confident that it’s a sin, yet totally ignored it prior to marriage. Maybe the same with contraception, which over half of all Catholics also use.

That just makes you hypocrites.

I absolutely admit I’m a hypocrite in this case, mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa

I also recognize it’s a wrongness in me, not in the teaching

And I don’t judge, I recognize that this weakness is rampant through all of mankind.

But it’s the better way.... to help build the people with the strongest of character, who can self master their urges, to help give them an early lift out of the entropy of mankind. The rest of us have to keep learning the hard way
 
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I absolutely admit I’m a hypocrite in this case, mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa

I also recognize it’s a wrongness in me, not in the teaching

And I don’t judge, I recognize that this weakness is rampant through all of mankind.

But it’s the better way.... to help build the people with the strongest of character, who can self master their urges, to help give them an early lift out of the entropy of mankind. The rest of us have to keep learning the hard way

So you don't try to justify your actions by pointing out that others also make similar mistakes and therefore your mistakes aren't really mistakes at all...instead they are a gift?

Interesting take IPD. Then again, you seem to be fully functioning.
 
So you don't try to justify your actions by pointing out that others also make similar mistakes and therefore your mistakes aren't really mistakes at all...instead they are a gift?

Interesting take IPD. Then again, you seem to be fully functioning.
Incorrect take. I’m saying it’s not a mistake at all. And most people don’t consider it a mistake either, otherwise they wouldn’t be doing it.

Try a different strawman.
 
I absolutely admit I’m a hypocrite in this case, mea culpa, mea culpa, mea maxima culpa

I also recognize it’s a wrongness in me, not in the teaching

And I don’t judge, I recognize that this weakness is rampant through all of mankind.

But it’s the better way.... to help build the people with the strongest of character, who can self master their urges, to help give them an early lift out of the entropy of mankind. The rest of us have to keep learning the hard way

so you really believe having sex in a loving relationship is wrong? If so, why did you do it? Do you have a problem with resisting urges to steal, assault women, etc.?

No, I believe you are hiding behind the Church’s position, and don’t actually believe it’s wrong. Otherwise you would have taught your children differently (I’m assuming).
 
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Incorrect take. I’m saying it’s not a mistake at all. And most people don’t consider it a mistake either, otherwise they wouldn’t be doing it.

Try a different strawman.

Weird that you assumed that I was referring to you.

And your point is that people don't succumb to desire and temptation and sin even though they know they're making a mistake? That's genius BSC.
 
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Correct. And my point is different Christians hold different positions on certain moral issues. I then gave a pastors opinion which supported mine, and no one has provided any biblical reference to dispute it.

Question. Is the use of contraceptives a sin? Death penalty? Drinking? Attending Mass on Sunday? Celebrating birthdays? Polygamy? Women covering their head At church.? Women priests?
You of all people deemed sola scriptura as not scriptural, yet you are now suggesting that since any of these "sins" might not be listed in scripture, then they are irrelevant and not sins. (Not all of them are indeed sins.) Let me try and tell you a simple, quick concept on contraceptives. But first put your finger into one ear and listen with the other so this can settled inside your warped mind. All contraceptives ARE NOT sinful when needed for medical reasons. What happens surrounding this contraceptive action is liable to the woman in this way: When a woman uses it to keep from having a baby (suppressing the natural act of life through pregnancy) so she can have sex anytime she wants to outside of the marriage bedroom (or within), then that is a sin. I challenge you right now to call a priest and ask them if I am correct. Check this out: Catechism of the Catholic Church #2370, ..."every action which, whether in anticipation of the conjugal act (having sex), or in its accomplishment, or in the development of its natural consequences, proposes, whether as an end or as a means, to render procreation (getting pregnant) impossible" is intrinsically evil. Dare to challenge?
 
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So, this has been going on for 2 years? wow.

Yep, his first post here was obsessing over Trump and white knighting for the dems. We started laughing at him for being a dem, then he invented the story that he was a 'lifelong conservative' that couldn't stand Trump. That story has now apparently morphed into him being a lifelong independent that can think for himself.

As he proves here everyday.
 
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I then gave a pastors opinion which supported mine, and no one has provided any biblical reference to dispute it

If I can provide you with a pastor who says it's ok to drop acid and explore your consciousness, would you be willing to concede that's it's ok to tune in and drop out? 🤣
 
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Incorrect take. I’m saying it’s not a mistake at all. And most people don’t consider it a mistake either, otherwise they wouldn’t be doing it.

Try a different strawman.

BTW I'm sure most of the people you associate with don't see anything wrong with it. I can totally see that.
 
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Yep, his first post here was obsessing over Trump and white knighting for the dems. We started laughing at him for being a dem, then he invented the story that he was a 'lifelong conservative' that couldn't stand Trump. That story has now apparently morphed into him being a lifelong independent that can think for himself.

As he proves here everyday.
There was also another libtard who claimed to be a conservative. He went by the name of ufrichter.
 
There was also another libtard who claimed to be a conservative. He went by the name of ufrichter.

Yeah there were several posters that showed up around that time as we were all slapping @BSC911 around pretty good. This was also around the time he claimed that he had put me on Ignore for the first time, so he needed a way to keep responding to me. All claimed to be 'lifelong conservatives' that conveniently can't stand Trump. All agreed with @BSC911. I'm sure one or all of them were his alts.

Sad!
 
so you really believe having sex in a loving relationship is wrong? If so, why did you do it? Do you have a problem with resisting urges to steal, assault women, etc.?

No, I believe you are hiding behind the Church’s position, and don’t actually believe it’s wrong. Otherwise you would have taught your children differently (I’m assuming).

No my brotha from another- I don’t hide behind the Church’s position.... I’m willing to take the spears and barbs in this, because I’ve been wrong, but the teaching is correct

.... I know it’s not the sex in a loving relationship, it’s the commitment in a loving relationship that trumps the sex .... there’s getting your nuts off..... and then there’s communicating to another human being, in which there is mutual love, in a all-encompassing manner that takes all your fears and burns them to phucking ashes..... because of the human being you’re holding is validating your heart and soul in that embrace

True love and commitment is a mutual gift beyond worth of anything paid for by currency
 
You of all people deemed sola scriptura as not scriptural, yet you are now suggesting that since any of these "sins" might not be listed in scripture, then they are irrelevant and not sins. (Not all of them are indeed sins.) Let me try and tell you a simple, quick concept on contraceptives. But first put your finger into one ear and listen with the other so this can settled inside your warped mind. All contraceptives ARE NOT sinful when needed for medical reasons. What happens surrounding this contraceptive action is liable to the woman in this way: When a woman uses it to keep from having a baby (suppressing the natural act of life through pregnancy) so she can have sex anytime she wants to outside of the marriage bedroom (or within), then that is a sin. I challenge you right now to call a priest and ask them if I am correct. Check this out: Catechism of the Catholic Church #2370, ..."every action which, whether in anticipation of the conjugal act (having sex), or in its accomplishment, or in the development of its natural consequences, proposes, whether as an end or as a means, to render procreation (getting pregnant) impossible" is intrinsically evil. Dare to challenge?
Nope, that’s my understanding as well. You finally got something right. Obviously many Protestants and Catholics disagree.
 
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Weird that you assumed that I was referring to you.

And your point is that people don't succumb to desire and temptation and sin even though they know they're making a mistake? That's genius BSC.
Again, I don’t believe sex is a sin if in a loving relationship. It’s a God given, natural human function that people have wrongfully treated as something wrong.
 
Again, I don’t believe sex is a sin if in a loving relationship. It’s a God given, natural human function that people have wrongfully treated as something wrong.

How do you know it’s God given without discernment and commitment?
 
Yep, his first post here was obsessing over Trump and white knighting for the dems. We started laughing at him for being a dem, then he invented the story that he was a 'lifelong conservative' that couldn't stand Trump. That story has now apparently morphed into him being a lifelong independent that can think for himself.

As he proves here everyday.
Ha. I figured it was your sorry ass he was responding to. Once agin, you got everything wrong.

1. I was posting here long before you Or Trump showed up. In fact, I thought you were the same Ghost who posted here long ago. IPD can confirm.
2. ive never claimed to be a lifelong conservative.
3. you’ve never owned anyone. Remember that time I trolled you so bad you tried to get me banned? That was glorious. I may have to dig up that thread so all can see.

Anyway, I’ll leave you alone for a while so you don’t get your feelings hurt again.
 
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Ha. I figured it was your sorry ass he was responding to. Once agin, you got everything wrong.

1. I was posting here long before you Or Trump showed up. In fact, I thought you were the same Ghost who posted here long ago. IPD can confirm.
2. ive never claimed to be a lifelong conservative.
3. you’ve never owned anyone. Remember that time I trolled you so bad you tried to get me banned? That was glorious. I may have to dig up that thread so all can see.

Anyway, I’ll leave you alone for a while so you don’t get your feelings hurt again.

I can confirm BadSelComm has been here a decade.... and verbal spars between him and Spaceghost were highly entertaining
 
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How do you know it’s God given without discernment and commitment?
I’m not sure what you mean by those fancy words, but I discern that it’s God given in that most all humans have sexual desires. The commitment part is more fluid, but that’s where marriage comes in. But some people don’t want to, or can’t be married. Especially older people. There is no reason to to deny them the gift of sexual intimacy, even after they can no longer have children. As you know, the Catholic Church has a history of repressing Sexual desires, the classic Catholic guilt. But I believe they’ve come to back off that stance, especially in light of the damage it can do psychologically. I understand why this is done for minors, but mature adults should be able to make that decision without the guilt associated with it. I’m not talking about free love, but rather responsible sexual adults.
 
I can confirm BadSelComm has been here a decade.... and verbal spars between him and Spaceghost were highly entertaining
Who didn’t Ghostof Spaceheater get into a verbal sparring match with? He finally put me on ignore as well, which I considered to be a victory.
 
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I’m not sure what you mean by those fancy words, but I discern that it’s God given in that most all humans have sexual desires. The commitment part is more fluid, but that’s where marriage comes in. But some people don’t want to, or can’t be married. Especially older people. There is no reason to to deny them the gift of sexual intimacy, even after they can no longer have children. As you know, the Catholic Church has a history of repressing Sexual desires, the classic Catholic guilt. But I believe they’ve come to back off that stance, especially in light of the damage it can do psychologically. I understand why this is done for minors, but mature adults should be able to make that decision without the guilt associated with it. I’m not talking about free love, but rather responsible sexual adults.

Sexual desires/sexual “intimacy” is as basic an animal drive as it gets......should humanity recede into the entropic morass of animalistic behavior? Or rise above?
 
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If I can provide you with a pastor who says it's ok to drop acid and explore your consciousness, would you be willing to concede that's it's ok to tune in and drop out? 🤣
Nah, there are plenty of crazy pastors. There are no prerequisites to become a pastor, like there is to be a priest.
 
Sexual desires/sexual “intimacy” is as basic an animal drive as it gets......should humanity recede into the entropic morass of animalistic behavior? Or rise above?
The latter. Which is why it should be confined to intimate relationships iMO. That’s where the discipline comes in. But not solely for procreation like is taught in the Church.

We’re not that far apart, you just draw the line a little narrower than I do.
 
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The latter. Which is why it should be confined to intimate relationships iMO. That’s where the discipline comes in. But not solely for procreation like is taught in the Church.

We’re not that far apart, you just draw the line a little narrower than I do.

Not far apart, but intimate relationships don’t always lead to commitment.....which is the line across our gulf....

We have a severe problem of the young pregnant mother taking care of her child..... is this not a social problem?? Is this not an economic problem?? Is this not a justice problem?? Is this not a moral problem??

At which point might a more stringent adherence to moral teachings benefit society??

When might the hypocrites, of which I am admittedly one, say that the rampant premarital sex of the young be potentially destructive? Or at least dangerous? Or at the very least unfulfilling?? I’m willing - not out of hubris, but out of mercy, to testify .....certainly the road otherwise travelled is easier than mine .....,
 
Nah, there are plenty of crazy pastors. There are no prerequisites to become a pastor, like there is to be a priest.

And it was a "crazy pastor" who wrote your "free love is ok with God" article that you linked for us and then asked us to counter. So, as usual, I got you to argue with your original position...and now it's done.

Your crazy pastor link
 
The latter. Which is why it should be confined to intimate relationships iMO. That’s where the discipline comes in. But not solely for procreation like is taught in the Church.

We’re not that far apart, you just draw the line a little narrower than I do.

Every relationship, where sex is involved, is an intimate relationship. I think "intimate" is code for committed for you...not sure though.

Either way, I'd question the commitment and/or love in a relationship where one or both parties are willing to bump their fun bits together but are unwilling to commit themselves only to one another.

I've had both kinds of sex as I've stated. I've had many regrets outside of marriage and zero regrets inside. Furthermore the experience is much better with someone I love, who trusts me and I trust them, as compared to a relative stranger or even with someone I was with long-term but very little real life commitment to.
 
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