Again, this is a non-sequitur.
Also, humans have a biological imperative to survive and avoid pain...and yet....
Humans defy biological imperatives on the reg.
I think the one thing lost in this debate (and it's my fault because I haven't stated it clearly) is that, either by choice or by nature, it does not matter. They are what they are. I don't get to say on their behalf. I don't hate them and I certainly mean them no harm.
I just don't buy in that it isn't a choice simply "because." For some people the lack of an apparent choice makes it easier for them to justify homosexual lifestyles. I don't have to justify their choices. It's absolutely none of my business. I'm charged with loving my brothers and sisters so I do.
Maybe I'm wrong. That's entirely possible. However, my lack of belief in born gay or not is not a judgment or hatred towards those who are gay. It's entirely irrelevant to the discussion imo. Relevant to other discussions? Sure.