9. He downplayed Abortion - and made it a non-issue. My two daughters were like - "yeah, we want the Government the F out of our bodies. I do not want an old white dude telling me what to do when some frat bro didn't pull out in time, condom broke, etc. That old white guy is not paying my bills, supporting my career, etc.....BUT, Abortion is already legal in Michigan. Discussion over. I am voting for Trump". Trump listened.
On board until I got here. I was a guy in college who would have loved to have played the frat bro game. I am no prude and if she was good looking and willing I would have been there. Is that right? Absolutely not. I am being honest in who I am. I am 30 yrs the faithful husband but would have slept with as many woman as I could have if I found them attractive in college. When you look up backslider in the dictionary my face is the one that shows up.
BUT Dad if this convo was real or the interpretation of your kids beliefs you have failed in this part of raising your children.
The expectation is marriage first. The reality is who knows. I get it. Been there and failed that.
A child openly admitting to the casual frat bro hookup game or you suspecting your daughters of being party ho's and this is why we need abortion is a problem. Side Note: No mention of the pill? Its all on the horndog frat bro?
My kids would be rightfully be embarrassed and keep such stuff under a rock or behind the bedroom door. I raised them to be better than me. Expectations are not always reality so I get it. But the standard is still the standard and the ideal expectation is set.
Oh and my kids know abortion is murder unless the mothers life is in danger. But its ALWAYS killing another person.