Some of those videos with the people that get paid to give relationship advice and also have youtube channels are pretty crazy. They have all these females calling in (usually above average looking but not great looking) and what they expect is pretty crazy and when the guy gives them a reality check and says that is like only 2 or 3% of the men in that age range they will act like they are surprised.
The main thing you hear said by them even the ones not making much money themselves is the guy needs to make 6 figures and look good. The ones making 100k or in that area usually will say things like he needs to make close to 200k at least to be marriage material to her. One of them has no issue telling them they are living in fantasyland and it would be one of the few exceptions if they were able to marry what they are describing to him.
A lot of them also act shocked when he explains to them that 38 year old good looking well to do financially guy could care less what her career is and only cares mostly about looks and that their value to him has dropped once they are his age.
If this is above average looking females acting this way it would explain truly average looks and money wise Joe that is 30 or under having a hard time even finding an average looking girlfriend or even getting a one night stand with one if those male virgin numbers are close to being accurate.
So what we are seeing is that women who for the past 50 years have been screaming that they want to make as much as men do, still want the men to make more than them? Seeing a logical inconsistency there. Hard to have the men make more without the women making less.